Lust is Reckless & Temporary-yield not to Temptation–Resist
So you see someone that “catches your eye” and you say-gosh, I have to meet her. But you freeze and she blends into the crowd she’s gone. Another one bites the dust. When my girlfriend and I go to the Mall, we say we’re not looking for a man or at men-but-that’s all we do. It’s all in good fun and we keep it healthy.
These are a few of the qualities girls look for: are you a good listener, are you good in bed, are you committed, do you take care of your appearance, do you care about others, are you funny, are you interested in learning, are you a giving person.
Now the qualities the men are looking for: is she a good listener, will she put others before herself, does she treat other people well, does she know how to have fun, does she have a sense of humor.
When do you find out about these things? Is she/he a Positive person and fun to be with, is the physical
attraction mutual, are we emotionally compatible, is he a realistic person, is she clean, is he healthy, does he smell good, is she broke/financially secure, is he mature, is she understanding, is he trustworthy, is she religious, does he curse, is she educated, does he have a vision for the future, is she a gossiper, is he lazy, is she anti-social, is he a drinker, does she do drugs, does he pray, does she like children, do we both want a long-term relationship, is he argumentative, does she have good morals, how many times has she been married, is she a nagger, is he abusive.
Find out– how hot & deep the water is before you jump in, if it’s just right–stay there–nothin like smooth sailing!
Making love is passionate: eye contact, talking, tender passion, cuddling, more talking, more about my partner than me, more than one position, sharing, caring–this connection strengthens the emotional bond–a candle lit.
Premeditated: Closeness and physical contact often leads to intimacy, this should be an “ALL” day conscience and deliberate act–on behalf of both parties.
There is no other form of contact closer than the “Act of Making Love”. Human beings’ insatiable desires can be compared to animalism while having sex. It can be considered violent with the most intense persistence to achieve ultimate mutual satisfaction…known as the end of, the “Important point” or Climax…
Males and Females were made to fit in a frontal way to accommodate one another with comfort, and ease, for intimate exchange-mental and physical (eye contact has its own conversation). Kissing maximizes the intensity and pleasure to satisfy one another, by design.
The act of making love normally happens at night. After a long day of work, kids, and everyday life stress. You can’t wait to get in bed, relax and receive some personal relief.
Release your anxiety with Passion, not anger!
So when you see each other begin touching, feeling, hugging, and kissing. Don’t wait for the mood to hit you, you want to instigate the process of being intimate. Each time you walk past one another: going to the fridge, to the bathroom, or just picking up the remote. It’s your relief. It is foreplay, which should go on for hours. The intimate touch that says “I love you”.
And JUST in case you haven’t heard, “the grass is not always greener on the other side.” (u better stay
where you’re at) It is one of the most important contracts –“I commit my Life to You” – there is nothing
insignificant about emotions. It can work, it will work-make it works.
A Dog (male/female) will vomit & return to eat their own vomit-if you find your mate to be of that breed, you should think hard before you kiss that person again.
Lust will destroy “Happiness” — it’s not emotional, it’s Temporary
On the other hand, if you know that you know that the person that you are with is good in every way except (well-you have shortcomings too). Life & Happiness is Critical – they are worth spending the time teaching and learning together because “GOOD” is HARD to find. If you want it to work, then it will work!
Oh, I forgot, this is Quoya again, the Author. Y’all makin me hot talkin bout love and sex. Dang, I’m hot. But that’s good and healthy. A good relationship, Love, and marriage is the utmost, this is what the world was created for. There is nothing more exciting than the intimate emotions between a man and a woman/partner/lover–the tides that bind.
OH, grandfather wants to say something. “If you can’t be with the one you love, then you will love the one you are with.
A man is at his sexual peak at the ages of 18-25. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life without this kind of Love and Intimacy.
(85% of inmates in Prison have sex–like it or not)
You better–Stop & Think about it.
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